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YES
m/m
m/f
threesomes/moresomes (gender config irrelevant)
ninja techniques ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
bondage (including shibari/handcuffs/etc) ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
penetrative sex ↹ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
oral sex ↹ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
sensory deprivation ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
sadism/masochism ↹ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
breath control ↹
hair-pulling ⇤ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
scratching/hickeys/other marks ↹ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
sex toys + clone technique usage ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
age difference ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
temperature/elemental play ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
flogging/spanking/impact play ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
xeno ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
vanilla sex ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
just straight up failing at sex ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
shower sex ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
m/m m/f threesomes/moresomes (gender config irrelevant) ninja techniques ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ bondage (including shibari/handcuffs/etc) ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ penetrative sex ↹ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ oral sex ↹ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ sensory deprivation ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ sadism/masochism ↹ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ breath control ↹ hair-pulling ⇤ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ scratching/hickeys/other marks ↹ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ sex toys + clone technique usage ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ age difference ᴹᴱᵀᴬ temperature/elemental play ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ flogging/spanking/impact play ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ xeno ᴹᴱᵀᴬ vanilla sex ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ just straight up failing at sex ᴹᴱᵀᴬ shower sex ᴹᴱᵀᴬ MAYBE
dubcon/unhealthy elements ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
sexual exhaustion ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
drugs/alcohol/aphro ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
Ask me about anything that's not on my 'no' list.
dubcon/unhealthy elements ᴹᴱᵀᴬ sexual exhaustion ⇥ ᴹᴱᵀᴬ drugs/alcohol/aphro ᴹᴱᵀᴬ Ask me about anything that's not on my 'no' list. NAH
somnophilia
humiliation
crossdressing as a form of humiliation or control ᴹᴱᵀᴬ
a/b/o
bodily waste
hentai logic
somnophilia humiliation crossdressing as a form of humiliation or control ᴹᴱᵀᴬ a/b/o bodily waste hentai logicNOTES
⇥ giving pref
⇤ receiving pref
↹ can go either way.
(hover over the words 'meta' for elaboration where applicable)
Sexuality + Drive: I play Itachi as a man with a low sex drive with little preference about his partner's sex or gender or appearance. The most important component of a sexual relationship to him is trust. I do see him as trending more dominant than submissive (he's not super keen on following orders) but as a service top he's willing to negotiate most things if that trust exists. Arousal for him is more a matter of psychological elements than direct physical stimulus. The path to getting into the necessary mindset for sex would probably involve dedicated effort and is likely to be easily derailed.
Also, he's 21 and died a virgin. Too busy being an international terrorist to get his freak on, whoops. However, he's not embarrassed by, ashamed of or shy about sex (or nakedness) — he was just literally too busy.
ICly: he lacks the experience to form healthy boundaries in relationships whether they are casually sexual or romantic. It would be very easy for him to get into a mutually toxic or harmful relationship as a product of his own PTSD and having very little social experience with others in a context that does not involve violence or death. He has a tendency to ignore his own limits, preferences or boundaries for others as he sees himself as a tool/lacking clear autonomy. This isn't to say he's not willing to learn what a healthy relationship might look like (though his own tendency towards self-flagellation/sabotage may be a roadblock here) but that a lifetime of trauma and manipulation have left him with very little context for what that might entail.
OOCly: I'm perfectly willing to play things out that are messy and imperfect as long as all players involved know what they're in for and there is a plan to trend towards 'getting more emotionally healthy' rather than 'getting less emotionally healthy'. Arcs that involve mutual healing or betterment where people support and respect each other are my jam. However, sometimes ppl just wanna be nast' too and that is also okay!! it's me i'm sometimes ppl
Ships: Itachi/Kisame is my main 'canon' ship, but would also write Itachi/Kakashi and Itachi/Kurenai. Would consider other Naruto characters (Ino, Sakura, Shikamaru, Neji, any of the sand sibs) if the situation/circumstance makes sense, but this would probably involve some sort of canon divergent AU (Boruto Whomst?) Not interested in writing anything with characters under 19 (or Itachi himself being underaged). However: the Naruto verse has different qualifying milestones for 'adulthood' (ie: they are considered adults when they make the intermediate shinobi ranking of chuunin) and Itachi both considers himself having been an adult for 11 years and that any other shinobi with the rank of chuunin would be the same. I do keep this in mind when writing him and it informs his IC opinions of adulthood/age of majority and consent, it's just not something I'm open to exploring in IC relationships at this time.
Cross-canon/medium ships are also a+ and I am wildly into well discussed, mutually OOC-agreed upon/communicated poly so I can have my cake and eat it too. Itachi is drawn to those with similar life experience, but he gets mad dokis for people who are Good and Decent. Bonus points are earned when people look him in the eye, don't take any of his bullshit, and demonstrate empathy and compassion for others.
⇤ receiving pref
↹ can go either way.
(hover over the words 'meta' for elaboration where applicable)
Sexuality + Drive: I play Itachi as a man with a low sex drive with little preference about his partner's sex or gender or appearance. The most important component of a sexual relationship to him is trust. I do see him as trending more dominant than submissive (he's not super keen on following orders) but as a service top he's willing to negotiate most things if that trust exists. Arousal for him is more a matter of psychological elements than direct physical stimulus. The path to getting into the necessary mindset for sex would probably involve dedicated effort and is likely to be easily derailed.
Also, he's 21 and died a virgin. Too busy being an international terrorist to get his freak on, whoops. However, he's not embarrassed by, ashamed of or shy about sex (or nakedness) — he was just literally too busy.
ICly: he lacks the experience to form healthy boundaries in relationships whether they are casually sexual or romantic. It would be very easy for him to get into a mutually toxic or harmful relationship as a product of his own PTSD and having very little social experience with others in a context that does not involve violence or death. He has a tendency to ignore his own limits, preferences or boundaries for others as he sees himself as a tool/lacking clear autonomy. This isn't to say he's not willing to learn what a healthy relationship might look like (though his own tendency towards self-flagellation/sabotage may be a roadblock here) but that a lifetime of trauma and manipulation have left him with very little context for what that might entail.
OOCly: I'm perfectly willing to play things out that are messy and imperfect as long as all players involved know what they're in for and there is a plan to trend towards 'getting more emotionally healthy' rather than 'getting less emotionally healthy'. Arcs that involve mutual healing or betterment where people support and respect each other are my jam. However, sometimes ppl just wanna be nast' too and that is also okay!! it's me i'm sometimes ppl
Ships: Itachi/Kisame is my main 'canon' ship, but would also write Itachi/Kakashi and Itachi/Kurenai. Would consider other Naruto characters (Ino, Sakura, Shikamaru, Neji, any of the sand sibs) if the situation/circumstance makes sense, but this would probably involve some sort of canon divergent AU (Boruto Whomst?) Not interested in writing anything with characters under 19 (or Itachi himself being underaged). However: the Naruto verse has different qualifying milestones for 'adulthood' (ie: they are considered adults when they make the intermediate shinobi ranking of chuunin) and Itachi both considers himself having been an adult for 11 years and that any other shinobi with the rank of chuunin would be the same. I do keep this in mind when writing him and it informs his IC opinions of adulthood/age of majority and consent, it's just not something I'm open to exploring in IC relationships at this time.
Cross-canon/medium ships are also a+ and I am wildly into well discussed, mutually OOC-agreed upon/communicated poly so I can have my cake and eat it too. Itachi is drawn to those with similar life experience, but he gets mad dokis for people who are Good and Decent. Bonus points are earned when people look him in the eye, don't take any of his bullshit, and demonstrate empathy and compassion for others.
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